The same boiling water that softens the Potato hardens the Egg..

From birth to the grave we are going to be exposed to a variety of stressors and situations. We can adopt the mentality and take on the role of the victim (usually learned from parents, siblings, friends, etc..), or, we can learn and become stronger, and use these experiences to help others by lifting them up and showing them how to learn and become stronger from these experiences. I know it can be hard for some to break free from the victim mentality, from the self-limiting beliefs people tell themselves every day, but it can and MUST be done to become the greatest version of yourself.